BLACK-ON-BLACK LOYALTY
By Clare X. Brown
Loyalty is something that is very important to me -whether it’s in personal relationships, or in relation to group loyalty. One of the themes that run through this blog is the need for black people to show more loyalty towards each other. Let me give three examples which I think illustrate how we as black people could show more loyalty towards each other.
First, black men need to be more loyal to black women. This is well illustrated by the fact that so many “conscious” black men hero worship Eldridge Cleaver - despite the fact that Eldridge Cleaver absolutely loathed black women. Indeed, Eldridge Cleaver was a good example of a man who proclaimed he was pro black while being open about favoring white women over black women. He openly acknowledges his rape of both black (and white women) in his book, Soul on Ice:
I became a rapist. To refine my technique and “modus operandi”, I started out by practicing on black girls in the ghetto–in the black ghetto where dark and vicious deeds appear not as aberrations or deviations from the norm, but as part of the sufficiency of the Evil of the day–and when I considered myself smooth enough, I crossed the tracks and sought out white prey. I did this consciously, deliberately, willfully, methodically–though looking back I see that I was in a frantic, wild, and completely abandoned frame of mind.
Amin Sharif notes that Cleaver:
…felt not only inadequate with white women but with black women as well……..he never took full responsibility for raping his “black victims.” Instead, Cleaver strangely made his apology to white society. To them Cleaver made his appeal, We are a very sick country. I, perhaps, am sicker than most.
Despite all the terrible things he did and said, incredibly I still see his image regularly on people’s blogs etc…WHY?
Second, black women need to show more loyalty towards black men. I find it disconcerting that some black women will spout the “sisterhood is global” rhetoric before they show any solidarity to fellow blacks. For example, it is fairly obvious - certainly in recent years - that bell hooks targets a progressive white female audience before black folk…maybe the fame has gone to her head – I don’t know – or maybe it’s the money. Likewise, too many black female bloggers are more interested in writing for blogher.org (a white feminist blog network) than blogging for a black- oriented audience; they seem to be more interested in getting their blogs linked by white progressives than writing anything of substance. What can I say? It’s sad.
Third, identifiably black “biracial” people need to show loyalty to the black group. Yes, it is madness to identify equally with “both sides” when both sides don’t show loyalty to you. At the end of the day, Black Americans accept black biracial people into the black community - or Black Americans wouldn’t be such a spectrum of different skin tones – however, white people have ALWAYS rejected identifiably Black Biracial people. To obsessively cling to a mixed or “mulatto” status is just another form of disloyalty to your black brothers and sisters - and it further weakens the black group.
Ultimately, black folk need to put loyalty to blacks before their loyalty to white groups. If we did this, we would have more self respect and (for what it’s worth) more respect from others.




